Finding and keeping a good woman is like cultivating a garden, but let me say this: there are no bad women out there......just women who have been cultivated badly and not put in the right environment for maximum growth...therefore, it may appear they have an attitude. It's not an attitude, it's just an emotional scar (Or scab) from the wounds inflicted. It's that simple! But if many men knew how to cultivate that hidden seed....that hidden life germ within the woman called love....feeding it, nurturing it, caring for it and bringing out it's beauty in full fruition....they would benefit by having heaven on earth! Bring the food home man! You wouldn't have any problem getting it cooked! Pay the bills on time and in full! You wouldn't ever have to be nagged. Keep your mind on your own woman and your thoughts on her alone! Let her know that you belong to her! Let her know that the organ between your legs is no more yours than it is hers! Open your heart first and show some sensitivity and maybe you would get the same in return! To get a fantasy you have to BE a fantasy! Love her as she is and stop comparing her to these damn airbrushed touched up images in the magazines and on the television set....would you like to be held to a standard that really doesn't exist? And if you hold her to the standard then hold yourself up to it too!
So you want her to greet you at the door smelling good with the dinner already laid out on the table with the sound of the bath water being drawn with candles burning? Then be the first to do it for her! She might not know this is how you want it, so bring her awareness up to a standard that she will quickly reciprocate with. Treat her like she tastes so sweet, because she does! Her nectar shouldn't EVER see the light of day if you know what you are doing. Make it all about her in the bedroom the majority of the time. It doesn't have to be about "tit for tat" every time.....and you know what I am talking about! Let her have hers without having to cater to you and let her know that! Do HER and let her drift of to a blissful, satisfied slumber! Massage her. Talk to her. Make her laugh. Make her think. Explore her every inch. Free up her tensions and release them from her without having to move a muscle. You will NEVER experience the righteous freak that she could be in the bedroom because you refuse to honor the lady that she IS in the trenches of everyday life! You are too dumb to see that you have it all there at home with her but don't do the right things to bring out the Heaven that she possesses within! So you waste the energy that SHE should be getting by running around with the stray homewreckers that couldn't care less about you 'cause in reality you are interchangeble (Because they lay with many fools!) while your woman wants to think the world of you.
Go back home and devour your woman's every nerve ending skillfully and patiently with your lips, tongue and mouth and let her know from ACTION that you will not ever leave one stone left unturned! Tossin salad? Yeah. I said it! THAT'S MANDATORY EVERYDAY if she so desires! Give it to her! Ain't it such a good feeling to give? Never let her leave the house without a Heartgasm, a Mindgasm and an Orgasm. Love her down till her eyes roll back and her toes curl up! Make her feel so good that she quotes scriptures that she hasn't quoted since sunday school.... And while she basks in that delicious afterglow, whisper softly to her subconcious mind all the sweet reassuring things that a woman NEEDS to hear....that you will never leave her....that there is NO one else that can take her place....how delicious she tasted....how you REFUSE to let another woman out there in the world get more love and attention than her....She should know that when she steps out that damn door to go to work or whereEVER she goes....that NO other woman had the loving that she got the night before and the treatment that she gets 24/7. Most men waste so much of what a woman holds within that is divine because of a cheap shallow urge for CHEAP sex! Yet the divine connection between two loving individuals who constantly submit to each other righteously is a natural high that NO drug, or NO stimulant could ever surpass!
Words By Mr. Lance Scurvin
