This Is An Open Letter To All Black Brothers Who Don't Understand That Our Sisters Are Hurting Badly & Need To Be Truly Loved, Honored, Supported, Respected & Cherished!

It's a shame that we men are so blinded by our lower desires that all we can see in a woman is the pleasure that we can rob from her. That pleasure is the offering that a well treated woman gives to a man for a righteous job well done. If a woman is treated correctly without any hidden agendas or secret motivations she just can't help herself from giving to the man what he has so rightfully earned! But some want the desert yet don't want to work to bring home the ingredients to make the meal....In actuality, over time the strength of the man diminishes and the youthful beauty of the woman may fade. But if the union has been cultivated properly over time, he still sees in her the most beautiful woman in the world and even though he might not possess the strength, might, vigor and agility that he had in his athletic peak, she still feels safe by his side as if he can tackle an army! This is the beauty of true love. A gift from God himself that is an earthly manifestation and miniscule sampling of the powerful love of God! When you have that special someone in your life, you don't fear old age! You don't fear what most call death! Love transcends death. Like the old guy that has a picture of his deceased wife on the old dusty mantle....he knows it's just a matter of time before he is reunited with her once again. The love he feels in his heart is STILL connected to hers....this is why many who pass on are followed soon after by their mate....isn't that lovely?
 

Finding and keeping a good woman is like cultivating a garden, but let me say this: there are no bad women out there......just women who have been cultivated badly and not put in the right environment for maximum growth...therefore, it may appear they have an attitude. It's not an attitude, it's just an emotional scar (Or scab) from the wounds inflicted. It's that simple! But if many men knew how to cultivate that hidden seed....that hidden life germ within the woman called love, feeding it, nurturing it, caring for it and bringing out it's beauty in full fruition....they would benefit by having heaven on earth! Bring the food home man! You wouldn't have any problem getting it cooked! Pay the bills on time and in full! You wouldn't ever have to be nagged. Keep your mind on your own woman and your thoughts on her alone! Let her know that you belong to her! Let her know that the organ between your legs is no more yours than it is hers! Open your heart first and show some sensitivity and maybe you would get the same in return! To get a fantasy you have to BE a fantasy! Love her as she is and stop comparing her to these damn airbrushed touched up images in the magazines and on the television set....would you like to be held to a standard that really doesn't exist? And if you hold her to the standard then hold yourself up to it too!